Kathy believes in maintaining a positive attitude. Life is uncertain, and no one knows what will happen or when. Anything can happen at any time, so focusing on living each day matters.
Her muscle pain began in 2018. At that time, she was very active, involved in swimming, golfing, canoeing, motorbiking, and even flying planes as part of her job. Initially, the pain was thought to be a muscle strain due to her active lifestyle. She had been taking medications like codeine for several months but eventually decided to stop and get checked.
On her way home one day, she visited her doctor, who arranged an X-ray and blood tests. The doctor was honest and acknowledged that the case was outside his expertise, so he referred her to Peterborough Hospital. The X-ray revealed a dark shadow, which led to further investigation.
She was diagnosed with lung cancer on July 31. She attended the appointment alone, expecting nothing serious. Her wife was at work, and her daughter was at school. During the consultation, a doctor and nurse informed her that cancer cells had been found, and treatment would begin.
She started chemotherapy, which gradually became a familiar part of her routine. Every three weeks, she received chemotherapy, and every four weeks, she had fluid drained from her chest. Although the procedures were difficult, they brought relief, especially when breathing became easier after drainage. Over time, the treatment environment became a place of comfort. She connected with nurses and other patients, and it felt almost like a social gathering where people supported each other.
The first chemotherapy session was challenging. She was introduced to the treatment area, filled with patients receiving different types of care, including chemotherapy and blood transfusions. It was overwhelming at first, but she adjusted.
She often felt unwell during treatment. Around the same time, she got a puppy, which became a source of motivation. Even on difficult days, caring for the puppy encouraged her to get up, move around, and stay engaged rather than remain inactive.
Her condition has brought physical limitations. Walking, energy levels, and concentration have all been affected. Activities she once enjoyed have become more difficult, and she had to give up motorbiking due to reduced strength and reaction time. Despite this, she continues to stay as active as possible, doing what she can and listening to her body.
Her perspective is focused on continuing life despite the challenges. She acknowledges that the journey can be uncomfortable, but it does not mean life has to stop. She emphasizes that a cancer diagnosis is not necessarily the end and encourages others to keep going, do what they can, and not let limitations define them.
